Infantilism: AB/DL's

The little boys and the little girls in the BDSM Lifestyle

By Mr Rich
2000

 

Want some candy little girl? What are you doing little boy? - Nuffin!

You hear these words and what picture usually conjures up in your head. Something nasty and wicked for some people, or something cute to others. I want to explain in this article some facts about the little girl and little boy phenomenon as I see it. Also to have you understand that it is a fetish/kink and has absolutly nothing to do with incestuous relationships.

Infantilism although is not generally in the BDSM lifestyle. It is however present in this lifestyle with certain people like myself. It involves people that want to enjoy the life of childhood. They can be men, women, straight or gay, there is no limit.

To explain the title a little bit. AB stands for Adult Baby. DL stands for diaper lover. Both encompass what is called Infantilism. The need to regress to an earlier age mentally. This can be a person in their late teens to a person in their old age. All in all it is a feeling of going back to an earlier part in their life when things were happy and carefree.

They do it to feel nurtured, wanted, needed and taken care of or to feel humiliated and sinful to a degree. The range of role-playing can be from early infants to age eight thru ten. The commonality of this is that the person relies on another person for all their needs. Needs like food, bathroom, cleaning and nurturing or just plain love and feeling cared for back to the early remembrance of childhood.

Some AB's will get into the role-play so much they will actually look and speak the part as if they somehow had been hypnotized to act the role out. Some will just wear the clothes, rompers, frilly panties, short alls, etc, to feel the part. While others, like the ones that wear the diapers will use the diapers for their intended use.

We have all seen the little girls at the play party with the frilly panties and the lollipop or the little boy with the short-alls and maybe a toy or teddy bear at hand. All quite innocent from the outside looking in. To complete the role there might be a Mommy or Daddy the "adult" partner of the two, watching close by to keep the little ones in their place if they should get out of hand. Be careful if you see someone in "costume" if you approach them, would hate to see you get squirted with milk from a bottle or scolded by their Mommy or Daddy.

DL's are people that love the feel of a diaper on them. This is a fetish for anything hugging them comfortably between their legs. Some simply wear them to feel good while some get into the humiliation part of it and use them. The diapers themselves can be something simple as a disposable or something extravagant ranging from cloth with a print on it to leather or rubber.

There is very little role playing for the DL. There is no need for someone to change them or play with toys or to feel a certain age. The person can also be anyone you know. Wearing the diaper in secret under their clothes at work, vacation or anytime. For some there is that feeling of getting caught which we all know thrills the mind. This can be seen in the S/m scenes with the Dominatrix and the bad little boy that needs a spanking because he wet his pants/diaper.

Infantilism can be fun, cute, sexy, erotic and humiliating. If you choose to explore this lifestyle. Have fun with it and ask questions, but also remember that some AB/DL's are shy about their fetish. There are many sites on the internet about this subject as well. I have just shown you what I have seen over the years playing with AB/DL's. Best advice I can give you is have fun and have those baby-wipes handy!